Wednesday, August 13, 2008

A Proud Mama


There are many reasons that I am proud of my girls that I have never written out for the "world" to see; however, today I am compelled to write about the recent events that have led to me think of how REALLY proud I am of both of them. Here is a proud Mama's take on it all....

An overview of the past week: It all starts with a game of hide and seek gone wrong...Ally knocked her front tooth back, on Maddie's knee; a 1st trip to the dentist, Ally didn't eat or drink (except very small sips) for almost THREE days, we were worried about dehydration, a trip to the Dr., she has strep, force-feeding her food and liquids AND medicine.....aaahhhh, she is FINALLY eating! Then an ear infection- all in less than a week- what is next!?!?

It was a traumatic week for Ally (and her mommy :-))but during it all she did better than I had expected. Her 1st trip to the dentist, although not under the circumstances that I was wanting, went remarkably well. Her tooth was sore and she wasn't swallowing but she cooperated, took her x-rays and let the Dr. look at her tooth. My sensitive, precious, funny little Ally was brave through it all, the dentist, the Dr. and back to the Dr. again. She is back to her old self and I am proud of the way she is handling her tooth in a "funny" position and all the medicine that she has to still take including ear drops, which until this time have always been hard for her to take. She is evolving into such a big girl with the way she has been handling certain situations and I am so proud of her. She still reverts to her old ways on occasion, like not wanting to go into her class this morning, but how wonderful it is to see her harnessing her emotions for the better.

And then there is Maddie....through Ally's trauma she stepped up her "game" as the big sister. When Ally was laying on the sofa, exhausted from no nourishment, she would kneel down in front of her to reason with her as only a big sister could. "Ally, I will give you a dollar if you drink something!" and "Ally, if you don't drink something, you will have to go to the hospital and you will cry and I don't want you to cry." She tried her best and was even frustrated when it didn't work. She wanted her old Ally back. (We all did!) Maddie reached out and tried to understand Ally's predicament and I am proud of this sweet spirit to her sister b/c I know that she would do this for any one in need.

I know that God put things in our life to remind us that He is there and to lean on Him through it all. It seems that when thing go astray, our human nature is to plan out what steps to take to fix the problem, instead of trusting God to take care of us and those we love. WE didn't get Ally to eat and drink again, the DR. didn't fix the problem but it was the many prayers offered up on Ally's behalf that made all the difference.

Maddie's Prayer: "Dear God, please help Ally to eat and drink again so she will not be sick anymore and please help her tooth to feel better. Amen" A simple prayer but exactly what Ally needed.

A proud Mama's prayer: "Dear God, thank YOU for blessing me with two precious, smart, amazing and testy :-) little girls who I feared that I would never have. They give me joy and fill my heart with a love that only comes from you. I feel blessed, in awe, loved and in love from all that you have given me. Thank you! Amen"

2 comments:

Amy Cheek said...

What a sweet account of your beautiful girls. I am so proud to be their Aunt and part of their lives. Thank you for sharing them with us!!! Love you!

Anonymous said...

Sus, have you ever heard the story of when we were little and I was practicing a "golf" swing with a sawed off baseball bat...and in my "back swing" John's mouth got in the way...and I knocked out his front tooth? He was only about 4 years old and so all the pictures of little John you can see his little "soup tooth". Poor little John...(and I got a whipping for it...as if I meant to do it...do you think I need therapy?)
Love you guys...Aunt Liz